How do you experience, when you received a SMS from a friend after a long duration of time?

How do you experience, when you received a SMS from a friend after a long duration of time? Or being in touch with a friend after long time by telephone or through the chatting and interact with social networking sites such as Orkut, Facebook or Twitter?

 

I am just trying to write my way of thinking about the last night when I received a text message from a friend after long time. As before receiving the text message I was sad, under tension of work and in rough mood. But after getting such message I became feel much relief from what I felt sometime ago. And I think you will be surprised too after getting such communication unexpectedly and feel good.

 

We get tired of chasing our dreams, tired of commute to work everyday to find unappreciative bosses and impolite co-workers that exhaust of our energy and happiness? But being in competition we always forget the truth of life, life is not only a competition, well life is to enjoy with every possibility and with each other.  But we make it a competition.  We forget our relations with friends, relatives etc.

 

The communication gap going bigger and bigger between the relationships among the people.  We forgetting our friends, family even parents for our own self-interested desire and it's not called a life. These days the life is so busy to achieve the careers goal.  Everyone is in pressure of competition / contest / match and tried to go on the top by winning it. I have remembered the hindi movie 3 Idiots, the professor saying raising his hands, 'life is a race and if you do not run fast, others will pip you to the post', we make it true in our real life by accepting it. But bieng in competition and chasing a good life, we get alone in the real life. Everyone is running for a good wealthy and healthy life but in this race we are forgetting something. Isn't?

 

Did you never felt pleasure and real expression when meeting or talking with friends or relatives after long time? I know, you do and its real expression which comes naturally and we talk long.

 

Life would be completely different if we could give some time to himself/herself, and earn positive influence from the same, no matter where we are and what we are doing but faith upon himself/herself is the key of a good and wealthy life.  Being in touch with friends, family, relatives we can get relief from anxiety, stress and tension.

 

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Powercut, loadshading a big problem in summer.

How you feel, when you faced the problem of electricity and also in summer, when peoples wants to get some relief in nights to rest. I know you will abused the electricity department. 

 

In our locality its rare case to cutout the electricity or poweroff, specially its creates problem in summer season. Its irritates peoples. From few days the loadshading is continues in nights when we are going to sleep and its create much problem.

 

Last night I have faced the such problem, when I came home from the office and go to the bathroom for fresh.  The weather was hot and its seems something has been stuck to my body. After refresh, I sitted for the night dinner, after finishing one "Roti", the power has been gone, and there were only the darkness exists. I burn the candles and finished my dinner.

 

It was already half an hour, when I waited for the electricity, but it not came. I thought it'll not come, so i prepared for the sleep as because feeling tired.  But I can't concentrate on sleeping because of the loadshading and the hot weather, so I came outside of the home. Finally after sometime the power has came and I go to the bed.

 

So power cut (loadshading) is really harras us, you have the solution for it?

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The March is seems the mid May or June

The early March looks like the mid May or June, as because the summer season is came in a hard hitting mood. The Sun is shining in its full attraction, as its seems that, people are in need of more Vitamin-D, so sun is kind enough to provide the same.

The hot weather is much bitter in the yearly March. The way the sun is shining, it’s difficult to get out from the home. Not. I am not afraid of the rays of sun, I am not going to touch with sunstroke, but I fear about my bike, which is running on the way, in the hot summer and I scared about the puncture of my bike’s tyre and the thought came in my mind first. What will happen, if the tyre will puncture in the middle of the road, I will have to get the bike by hand in the home as because there are no place or automobile shop to stay there and repair the puncture tyre.

But I have no alternative; I will have to ride the bike on the road which goes to my home to office and office to home. It’s not a problem at all for me, as because I have to spend only few minute to travel on the road and became idle in the air conditioner office.

But I was thinking about the people who work hard in this hot season where there are no shade and they works everyday in this hot summer. How they work hard at this hard temperature? The thought which was said in the above line is came when, I was in a hotel for lunch and one people came there and started talking about the feature of this summer. Also he talking about a lady labour, who is working nearby a construction building and she take 8-10 bricks at her head.

Can you imagine that in this hot summer, a lady can take 8-10 bricks at her head; can you do it for 8 hours continuously? I think I never be able to do the same task more than one day or two, which the lady labourer doing everyday. Amazing! isn't??

My Loneliness

Have you experienced loneliness? It’s very difficult to be alone, I was facing the same problem in my college days, which was bit interesting. read it...and enjoy.

It was the month of February, when the sun is in his younger appearance, the rays of the sun is quite bitterer. I have remember on that day I have a Political Science class at 3:00 pm, but I was busy in my part time job and guessed that I will not be able to reach at time for the class, but I never want to disappear from that class. You know why.

I had only my job early but some finish work has been pending. But I have no concentration on the job because it’s already 2:45 pm so I get left from there and came to college in 3:15 pm with my bicycle. The college premises looks like a lonely space, I only saw some students with their girlfriend (as I am not sure, but how you will take, when you saw a girl and a boy talking in the lost world, where nobody present) who are talking outside from the college.

I entered the college gate and go to cycle stand to keep my bicycle, I saw the stand rows have no bicycle, but my bicycle filled the gap. As I was late for the class, I stand my cycle without notice anything and reach at class after running a few seconds from the cycle stand.

I found the crowd in the class. Thank God, the teacher is not came yet for taking the class, I entered the college and stuck to my seat and give an eye to the entire class, the class have less students than any others day, firstly I can’t remember that it’s was Saturday.

She sat beside my seat. It was a good chance / time for me to talk with her, but second minutes passed, I thought, what will I ask her? Then I came to the final decision that I will ask her name, because I don’t know her name yet in my two months college period, I thought. I go to proceed about what I thought few minutes ago, but at the same time teacher has been entered the class and I became motionless on my seat.

The class get dissolved early after attendance because the lack presence of students and afterall its 3:40 pm. I came outside from the class, and looking very tired, not because for that I came through cycle in sunny day, it’s the condition of loneliness. I feel myself very alone. She crossed me near notice board on the way of verandah to exit door of college. I looked her once and want to talk with her, but she have with their friends. I can’t talk with her.

I came to the cycle stand again, I saw my cycle which is laying alone in the very large area. I thought what a luck, the bicycle have same condition as me, I unlocked my bicycle and took it from the stand and left the college.

She was on my dream - I was writing a romantic love letter

I was much curious and excited to study in college and my dream became true after confirmation of my admission in first year and attended my first class in college premises. It was so excited and charmed (this excitement was not real for study but attraction of the girls in the college, and not only me, many students of my age go to the college for the same excitement, where I came to know the real fact about college) and the excitement became doubled when I saw that very cute looking girl.

I became so thoughtful about that girl who came very often in my dreams; (in my dreams I was writing a love letter to her and there are more pages laying on the surface because lack of writing knowledge about love letters) I was pleased to think about, that I was going to make a girlfriend; I mean I will have also a girlfriend like other have. (But it’s in my dream). I always think about myself that I am different from others, but when I am in dreamt I couldn’t think so, as because like me others are thinking too in this way. So I get wrong in this fact and find myself in the same category with guys.

But it’s true that I felt something…something, that is why I reached timely in college for one month regularly, also at that time period I forgotten many times about my part time job which I was doing at that time. Now you might guess right here that, I were busy to gather the information regarding the girl and planning to purpose her. But it’s wrong.

How could I think so? I had previously told you that I am shy and I never talked to any girl before. I knew that it’s a vital problem for many like us, who like someone but couldn’t speak about this romance heart feeling truth and romantic ideas. I was one of them. But before I proceed to talk, I want to know her properly. On first day when she was standing at the bus stand, I supposed that she could live around my surrounding place, I was not well known about the bus routes but aware about that route which goes to my house, as because I saw her on that route for waiting for bus. So I thought she was live nearby my bus route. I was right on my first day, because she was also don’t aware about the bus route and accidentally she was on the wrong bus for her home.

After first day of college, I travel through the bus to the college way, because I thought that she was too came in the same bus and I could be able to see her again. But I never find her n the same bus. After few days in college, I came to know that we have only two subjects were common, they were Political Science and other was Compulsory English. As because I never find her in another classes which I attended. Also I came to know about that she live in B-Zone (a place in Durgapur township) because I saw she taken the opposite bus route after her first day, where the buses are goes to the B-zone bound instead of my home route.